Three years ago, I was diagnosed with Stage 1 breast cancer.
I didn’t expect how much I’d miss Lefty.
What Does Being a Caregiver Mean? In the case of my wife, her cancer diagnosis meant she was going to be spending 100% of her time and energy fighting the disease. As a caregiver, I was going to help her with this battle, and then take over everything else so she could focus on fighting mesothelioma. Again, I just thought of it as being a good husband, I keep thinking of the passage in our wedding vows “in sickness and in health.” This was the sickness part.
In Cape May, NJ, with a drain protruding from my right side after a single, prophylactic mastectomy less than two weeks ago, I'm here to recuperate. I barely slept last night, the site where the plastic tube exits my side burns. I text my plastic surgeon a photo of the site and he tells me it's time for the drain to be removed. It's 8:30 pm and I'm three hours from his office on the tail-end of December, how is how this infected drain going to be removed so I can get some sleep tonight?
CANCER-PETEING: When you tell a person you have/had cancer and they tell you unsolicited stories of their grandmother/first grade teacher/Starbucks server’s cancer journey that usually ends in death. #nothelpful
Independence Day is a celebration that can't be missed: marching bands parade the streets, fireworks illuminate the sky and sounds of joy and laughter fill the air; summer has begun! I wonder why, then, on a day like this, I'm feeling blue?
Cancer is like a truth serum: You find out what you are made of as well as what everyone else is all about. That was a lesson I was not prepared for, or welcomed, when I was diagnosed with breast cancer. It was also an unexpected upside of an otherwise calamitous situation.When you are diagnosed with cancer you are forced to look at your life, relationships and the choices you have made on a whole new scale....
An oddly familiar thing happened tonight, my panties were instantaneously soaked through to my jeans (and not because I was excited)! Stunned, has my period returned after chemotherapy?
The answer to the most common question since my mastectomy, will you get bigger breasts with reconstruction? is a resounding YES! But how far down the alphabet will I go?